[Video] How to overcome procrastination and achieve success
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Procrastination—A Fatal Weakness of the Highly Cognitive Poor
In modern society, many people possess high levels of education, keen insight, and the potential to change their circumstances, yet they consistently fail to overcome economic and life difficulties. They are referred to as "highly cognitively advanced individuals."poor peopleThis group is characterized by the fact that they possess the knowledge and ability to change their fate, yet they remain mired in poverty due to procrastination. Procrastination is not merely a time management issue, but a complex interplay of psychology and behavior that hinders the transformation of an individual's cognition into action.
Procrastination is ubiquitous. Whether it's students scrambling to meet deadlines, professionals delaying project launches for fear of failure, or even those with entrepreneurial dreams waiting for the "perfect moment," procrastination is silently eroding their opportunities. This article will discuss this issue from the following perspectives:
- Two major manifestations of procrastinationThe process is difficult to start and disorganized.
- The psychological roots of procrastinationUnfamiliarity with the process and fear of the outcome.
- The impact of procrastination on high cognitive poorInternal friction, lost opportunities, and self-denial.
- Strategies to overcome procrastinationSMART principles, psychological adjustment, and behavioral reshaping.
- Case Analysis and Practice GuideHow to apply theory to daily life.

Two major manifestations of procrastination
Difficulty in getting started: The trap of waiting for the "perfect timing"
procrastinationOne of the most common symptoms among patients is difficulty in initiating action. They always wait until "everything is ready" before taking action. This behavior, seemingly cautious and responsible, actually masks a fear of action and excessive anxiety about the outcome. For example, a new employee might receive an important market analysis task but procrastinate because they are unsure how to begin. They might tell themselves, "I need to learn more data analysis skills first," or "I'll wait until inspiration strikes." This mindset leads to the task being postponed indefinitely until the deadline approaches, at which point they rush into action, often with unsatisfactory results.
Behind this difficulty in getting started lies an obsession with "perfectionism." Highly cognitively impoverished individuals often have high expectations of themselves; they fear failure and the possibility of results falling short of their expectations. Therefore, they tend to postpone action until all conditions are "perfect." However, in reality, "perfect" opportunities are rare, and this waiting ultimately becomes an excuse for procrastination. For example, someone wanting to start a business might say, "I'll wait until the market environment is stable, I have sufficient funds, and I have a complete team before I begin." But the market is always unpredictable, and such waiting often causes opportunities to slip away.

Distracted process: Focus eroded by short-term gratification
Another common manifestation of procrastination is disorganization. Even after successfully starting a task, many people are easily distracted by short-term pleasures during execution. For example, a student plans to spend an afternoon learning a new skill, but after only five minutes of opening a book, they are drawn to phone notifications and start scrolling through short videos or social media. An hour later, they realize they have strayed off course and start again, only to be attracted by promotional information from shopping platforms shortly afterward. As a result, the afternoon passes with almost no learning progress.
The root cause of this disjointed process lies in the brain's craving for instant gratification. Modern society is filled with various instant entertainment options (such as social media, short videos, and games), which provide immediate and low-cost pleasure, while the effort required to complete a task demands a long period of investment and focus. When the brain has to choose between "hard work" and "instant gratification," it often leans towards the latter, leading to repeated interruptions in task progress.

The psychological roots of procrastination
Unfamiliarity with the process: Cognitive resistance to starting
One root cause of procrastination is unfamiliarity with the task process. When faced with an unfamiliar task, the brain instinctively generates cognitive resistance because of unfamiliarity with the process, unclear steps, or even not knowing where to begin. This sense of the unknown consumes a lot of mental energy, making it exceptionally difficult to initiate action. For example, someone who has never written a business plan might feel completely lost when facing the first step of a startup project. They don't know how to collect market data, how to write financial forecasts, or even the structure of a business plan. This unfamiliarity leads them to avoid the process, opting instead for familiar and low-energy activities, such as scrolling through their phone or chatting with friends.
The essence of this cognitive resistance is the brain's resistance to high-energy-consuming tasks. Psychological research shows that the human brain tends to conserve energy, prioritizing familiar and low-risk behaviors. Therefore, when faced with unfamiliar tasks, the brain instinctively postpones action to avoid excessive mental energy expenditure.

Fear of outcome: a psychological barrier preventing action
If unfamiliarity with the process is "not knowing how to do it," then fear of the unknown outcome is "not daring to do it." Highly cognitively impoverished individuals often have a strong fear of failure. They worry that their efforts will not be rewarded, fear the negativity that failure will bring, and even fear that the outcome will not meet their high standards. This fear drives them to procrastinate in order to avoid possible negative evaluations and maintain a psychological defense mechanism of "I haven't even started, so it's not a failure."
For example, an aspiring novelist might hesitate to write for fear of their work being rejected. They might think, "If I write something and nobody likes it, doesn't that prove I have no talent?" This fear of the outcome leads them to procrastinate, because as long as they don't start, they won't face the possibility of failure. Procrastination here becomes a psychological buffer, allowing them to temporarily escape the feeling of being out of control.

The impact of procrastination on high cognitive poor
Internal friction: the clash between cognition and action
Procrastination is not merely a waste of time, but also a form of internal psychological drain. Highly cognitively impoverished individuals possess the knowledge and ability to change their situation and have a strong inner desire to take action, yet procrastination prevents them from translating their knowledge into results. This contradiction between cognition and action leads to internal friction—a vicious cycle of self-doubt and anxiety. They blame themselves for missing opportunities, which in turn further discourages them from taking action, trapping them in a vicious cycle.

Lost Opportunities: From Possibility to Regret
The direct consequence of procrastination is the loss of opportunities. Whether it's a career advancement opportunity, a market window for starting a business, or personal growth and learning, procrastination turns these possibilities into regrets. For example, a promising young person might miss a scholarship application deadline due to procrastination, or miss a golden opportunity to start a business because of inaction. These regrets accumulate, further exacerbating their impoverished state.
Self-denial: From Confidence to Doubt
Procrastination erodes self-confidence. Highly cognitively impoverished individuals initially have a high opinion of their abilities, but repeated procrastination and failure lead them to doubt their worth. They might think, "I know how to do it, so why can't I do it?" This self-doubt further weakens their motivation, creating a vicious cycle.

Strategies to overcome procrastination
SMART principle: A powerful tool to overcome startup difficulties
To overcome procrastination, the first step is to address the difficulty of getting started. Elon Musk, an efficiency expert, proposed a simple yet effective method: making actions controllable through precise, small goals. The SMART principle is a widely used goal-setting methodology that comprises five elements:
- SpecificGoals must be clear and specific, avoiding ambiguity. For example, instead of saying "I want to learn English," set a goal of "memorizing 20 words every day."
- MeasurableGoals need to have clear metrics. For example, "completing a 1,000-word report" is more specific than "writing something".
- AchievableGoals should be within your capabilities, avoiding being too high or too low. For example, setting a goal of "reading for 30 minutes every day" is more realistic than "reading 10 books in a month."
- RelevantGoals should align with your long-term vision. For example, if your goal is to become a data analyst, learning Python is more important than learning unrelated skills.
- Time-boundGoals need to have clear deadlines. For example, "Complete the market research by next Monday" is more motivating than "Complete it as soon as possible".

By using the SMART principle, complex tasks can be broken down into small, specific action steps, reducing cognitive resistance and making it easier to get started. For example, someone wanting to start a business can break down the goal of "opening a coffee shop" into:
- Monday: Research the demand in the local coffee market (2 hours).
- Tuesday: Contact three suppliers to inquire about coffee bean prices (1 hour).
- Wednesday: Write a 1000-word business plan outline (3 hours).
This breakdown method makes tasks more specific and actionable, thereby reducing the psychological barrier to procrastination.
Psychological adjustment: Coping with the fear of outcome
In addition to setting specific goals, it's also necessary to overcome the fear of outcomes through psychological adjustment. Here are some practical strategies:
- Accepting imperfectionsRecognize that failure is part of growth and allow yourself to make mistakes. For example, when writing a novel, focus on completing the first draft rather than striving for perfection.
- Visualization successVisualizing the positive outcomes of completing a task can enhance motivation. For example, before starting a business, one can imagine the scene after the coffee shop opens to generate positive emotions.
- Establish a safety netSet a low-risk starting point for your actions. For example, conduct small-scale market testing first, rather than investing all your funds directly.

The Trap of Procrastination and How to Overcome It
Cultivating long-term action
To truly escape the trap of procrastination, short-term strategies alone are insufficient to ensure sustained change. Cultivating long-term action requires a three-pronged approach: habit formation, mindset adjustment, and external support, gradually transforming cognition into stable behavioral patterns. The following will explore these three aspects in detail to help those with high cognitive impairment build lasting action and achieve the transformation from "knowing" to "doing."
Habit Formation: How to Build Long-Term Motivation Through Small Actions
Habits are the cornerstone of motivation. Psychological studies show that forming habits can significantly reduce the cognitive burden of action, because repetitive behaviors gradually become automatic responses in the brain, eliminating the need to expend willpower to initiate them each time. For those with high cognitive impairment, one of the root causes of procrastination is cognitive resistance to tasks. Therefore, establishing habits through small actions can effectively lower the starting threshold and achieve long-term motivation.

The power of small actions
The first step in habit formation is breaking down large goals into small actions, which echoes the SMART principle mentioned in Part Four. Small actions are characterized by their simplicity, feasibility, and lack of psychological pressure. For example, to cultivate a daily reading habit, start with "reading 5 pages a day" instead of setting a grand goal like "reading for an hour every day." The advantage of these small actions is that they make starting easy and provide a sense of accomplishment each time, thus reinforcing the positive feedback loop.
Take a young person looking to improve their workplace skills as an example. They might plan to learn Python programming, but the thought of mastering complex syntax and practical project experience might daunt them. A more nimble approach would be to dedicate 10 minutes each day to learning a basic Python concept (such as variables or loops) and completing a simple exercise. This not only lowers the initial barrier to entry but also allows them to gradually build knowledge and increase their confidence.

Habitual stacking method
To turn small actions into habits, you can use "Habit Stacking." This method, proposed by behavioral scientist BJ Fogg, focuses on linking new habits with existing ones, thereby reducing the brain's resistance to new behaviors. For example, if you drink a cup of coffee every morning after brushing your teeth, you can set a routine of reading five pages of a book while drinking your coffee. In this way, the new habit (reading) is "stacked" on top of the old habit (drinking coffee), using a familiar behavior to trigger the new action and reducing the chances of forgetting or procrastination.
Example: A student wants to develop the habit of writing in a diary every day, but always forgets or postpones it. He can choose to place the diary on his bedside table after taking a shower each night, and set a goal of writing three sentences before going to sleep, recording his achievements or plans for the day. This method combines diary writing with the fixed habit of showering, gradually forming a stable behavioral pattern.

The truth behind the 21-day habit formation rule
The saying "it takes 21 days to form a habit" is often mentioned, but psychological research shows that the time it takes to form a habit varies from person to person, averaging 66 days, and depends on the complexity of the behavior and individual willpower. Therefore, people with high cognitive impairment should avoid having overly high expectations for quick results and instead focus on consistent practice. For example, spending 10 minutes a day practicing meditation may feel boring or difficult to maintain initially, but if you persist for several weeks, your brain will gradually adapt and it will become part of your daily life.
To increase the success rate of habit formation, the following tools can be used:
- Habit trackerUse mobile apps (such as Habitica or Todoist) to track your daily progress; visual progress bars can boost motivation.
- Reward MechanismSet small rewards for completing small actions, such as allowing yourself to watch an episode of your favorite TV series after completing a week's reading plan.
- Environmental DesignAdjust your environment to support your habits. For example, place books in a visible location, turn off phone notifications, and reduce distractions.
Through small actions, building up habits, and consistent execution, people with high cognitive impairment can gradually transform the inertia of procrastination into the motivation to take action, achieving a leap from "wanting to do" to "doing it every day."

Mindset Adjustment: Shifting from a Fixed Mindset to a Growth Mindset
Another major psychological root of procrastination is the fear of failure, which is closely related to a fixed mindset. Psychologist Carol Dweck suggests that people with a fixed mindset believe their abilities are innate and unchangeable, therefore they fear failure because it is seen as a denial of their self-worth. Conversely, people with a growth mindset believe that abilities can be improved through effort and learning; they see failure as an opportunity for growth and are therefore more willing to take action.
Recognizing the trap of fixed mindset
Highly cognitively impoverished individuals often fall into the trap of fixed mindsets. They have high expectations of themselves, believing "I should do it right the first time," a mindset that leads them to procrastinate when faced with uncertainty. For example, someone wanting to start a business might delay taking action because they worry their business plan isn't perfect, fearing failure will prove they are "not good enough." This fixed mindset binds their actions to their self-worth, increasing psychological pressure.

Strategies for cultivating a growth mindset
To shift to a growth mindset, highly cognitively impoverished individuals need to redefine the meaning of failure and effort. Here are some practical strategies:
- Treat failure as a learning experienceEvery failure is feedback, not a conclusion. For example, if a professional submits a report that is returned for revision, he can see it as an opportunity to improve his report writing skills, rather than a denial of his abilities.
- Focus on process rather than resultFocus on the action itself, not the final result. For example, when learning a new skill, focus on your daily practice progress, rather than becoming an expert immediately.
- Reshaping self-dialogueReplace negative feedback with positive language. For example, instead of saying "I can't do this well," say "I'm still learning, and this is a normal part of the learning process."
Example: A student procrastinated on studying because he was afraid of failing his math exam. He could have used a growth mindset to tell himself, "Even if I don't do well on this exam, I can still learn new knowledge from the mistakes I made." This mindset would have made him more willing to start studying instead of avoiding it.

Cultivating a long-term mindset
Developing a growth mindset takes time and practice. Here are some long-term strategies:
- Reflection DiarySpend 5 minutes each day recording your efforts and achievements to enhance your awareness of progress.
- Reading growth storiesLearn how successful people grow from failures, for example, by reading entrepreneurial stories to inspire a positive mindset.
- Meditation and MindfulnessThrough meditation practice, one can enhance awareness of negative emotions and reduce excessive fear of failure.
By shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, highly cognitive poor individuals can gradually let go of their fear of failure and view action as a process of growth, thereby enhancing their long-term motivation.
External support: Seek help from mentors, communities, and responsible partners.
Individual effort alone is often insufficient to sustain long-term motivation; external support systems can provide motivation, guidance, and discipline for those with high cognitive impairment. Mentors, communities, and responsible partners are three key external resources that can effectively help overcome procrastination.

Mentor's guidance
Mentors can provide professional advice and psychological support, helping those with high cognitive impairment to clarify their direction and reduce their unfamiliarity with the process. For example, a professional looking to change careers can seek out a senior figure in the industry as a mentor to learn how to develop a career plan and put it into action. The mentor's experience sharing can reduce cognitive resistance, making the process more manageable.
Advice on finding a mentor:
- Take the initiative to contactContact potential mentors through LinkedIn or industry events and express your genuine desire to learn.
- Define the problemAsk your mentor specific questions, such as "How can I master a skill in three months?" instead of asking for general help.
- Stay in touchRegularly update your mentor on your progress, demonstrate your initiative, and build trust.

The Power of Community
Joining like-minded communities can provide a sense of belonging and motivation. For example, participating in study groups, entrepreneurship clubs, or online forums allows people with high cognitive difficulties to share goals, exchange experiences, and learn from the successes of others. The positive atmosphere of a community can inspire action and reduce the feeling of isolation from working alone.
Example: A freelancer who wanted to develop a writing habit joined an online writing community, sharing her daily writing progress with other members. This community support made her feel monitored, thus reducing procrastination.
Supervision by responsible partners
An accountability partner is a powerful external constraint. Agreeing with a friend or colleague to work together on a goal and regularly checking progress can significantly improve the sustainability of action. For example, two colleagues preparing for a certification exam can report their progress daily, encouraging each other and reducing the likelihood of procrastination.
Recommendations for establishing a responsible partnership:
- Choose a suitable candidateFind a reliable partner who shares your goals.
- Set clear rulesFor example, report progress every Monday, and if you don't finish, you will be punished in a small way (such as buying coffee).
- Maintain positive interactionThe main focus should be on encouragement, avoiding mutual blame.
With the guidance of mentors, the encouragement of the community, and the supervision of responsible partners, people with high cognitive impairment can build a robust external support system and enhance the sustainability of their actions.

Summary of the harms of procrastination and strategies to overcome it
Procrastination is one of the biggest obstacles to self-actualization for the highly cognitively poor. It's not just a time management issue, but a psychological and behavioral dilemma stemming from unfamiliarity with the process and fear of the outcome. Two key manifestations of procrastination—difficulty initiating and disorganized process—cause many to miss opportunities and fall into a vicious cycle of internal conflict and self-doubt. However, through scientific strategies and sustained effort, procrastination can be overcome.
This article analyzes the root causes and effects of procrastination from multiple perspectives and proposes practical solutions:
- SMART principleOvercome startup difficulties by setting specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound goals.
- Psychological AdjustmentAccept imperfections, visualize success, build a safety net, and overcome the fear of outcomes.
- Habit formationBuild long-term motivation through small actions, habit building, and environmental design.
- Mindset adjustmentShift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, and view failure as a learning opportunity.
- External supportExternal constraints on action are formed by leveraging mentors, communities, and responsible partners.
These strategies complement each other, helping highly cognitive poor people move from cognition to action, and from procrastination to efficiency.

Start with small actions to achieve unity between cognition and action.
The key to overcoming procrastination lies in action, and the starting point of action is often a small, insignificant step. Whether it's writing three sentences in a journal each day, learning a new skill for ten minutes, or sharing your day's progress with a partner, these small actions can accumulate into huge changes. As the philosopher Lao Tzu said, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Those with high cognitive impairment need to let go of their obsession with perfection and start taking the first step right now.
For every reader struggling with procrastination, we suggest starting with the following actions:
- Set a small goalSpend 10 minutes today completing a long-delayed task, such as tidying up your desk or writing an email.
- Find support systemContact a friend and agree to monitor each other's progress toward the goals for a week.
- Reflection and RecordingSpend 5 minutes each day recording your actions and feelings to enhance your perception of progress.
Procrastination is not an insurmountable enemy; it's merely an obstacle on the path to growth. With the willingness to take action, everyone can transform knowledge into results, escape the predicament of being a "highly cognitively poor" individual, and achieve a leap in self-worth. Starting now, let go of your worries, take the first step, and your future will be changed by action.
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