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What the hell is sausage?
"Yangchang" is a Chinese term used primarily in Cantonese and Mandarin, with a figurative and derogatory meaning. It refers to the penis of a Caucasian man, or, by extension, Caucasian men themselves. The term is often used in colloquial or slang, sometimes with a sexual connotation, as in phrases such as "sausage eating" or "sausage eating", which derogatorily means "to suck, suck the dick, or have sex with a white man".
Hong Kong Girl + Confessions of a Sausage
"Hong Kong girls" and "foreign sausages" have always been a hot topic of gossip in Hong Kong, especially the word "foreign sausage", which has a strong derogatory and homosexual connotation and is often used to refer to the sexual organs of white men, or directly to white men themselves. In Hong Kong, a place where Chinese and Western cultures meet, this word not only reflects the stereotype of foreigners, but also involves the complex mentality of Hong Kong girls pursuing cross-cultural romance and sexual exploration. As a Hong Kong girl born and raised, I have had the experience of dating foreigners in foreign countries and have witnessed the ups and downs of cross-cultural relationships. Today, I would like to share my story with you, reflect on the cultural phenomenon of "foreign sausage" and Hong Kong women, and explore how these topics are connected with the concept of group sex. I hope to give some rational advice to sisters who are interested.
Hong Kong girls prefer sausages: from Hong Kong girls to "watercress"
Like many Hong Kong girls, I was born and raised in Hong Kong. I grew up with Chinese friends when I was young and my social circle is quite "localized". It was not until I graduated from college that I had the opportunity to study in the United States and was exposed to a completely different cultural environment. In foreign countries, Asian girls are actually "super popular". This discovery is really a culture shock! Especially for a girl like me who has a bold personality and is not the traditional "fair, gentle and cuddly" type, I may not be a "goddess" in the eyes of Hong Kong men. My skin color has a bit of "Southeast Asian tropical style", so when I go to Southeast Asia, I am often mistaken for a local. But in America, I suddenly became a "super babe", and this feeling of satisfaction was a big change!
The experience of dating a foreign kid in the United States, the cultural differences were really a fresh thrill. After returning to Hong Kong, my perspective changed completely. I only liked to date foreigners, and the faces of Hong Kong men seemed to have automatically blurred in my eyes. Going out with a foreign boyfriend does attract more attention than ordinary couples, and even I feel like I have become a "Western vegetable". Honestly speaking, the foreigners I know are much more gentlemanly, and their pace of life is chiller. They are not as nervous as the Hong Kong people. At that time, I really felt like I "couldn't turn back".
Looking back, I have had two serious human-ghost romances. We lived together for a year and a half in each relationship and even met each other's parents. Unfortunately, we were not destined to be together in the end and broke up peacefully. These experiences have made me reflect a lot, especially on the rules of the game in cross-cultural romance and same-sex relationships.
Sausage and cross-cultural relationships: different rules of the game
Many people think that "foreign sausages" are just for show and then thrown away, but I think their culture of getting along is actually a different set of rules. In foreign countries, returning goods is a very common practice, even opened cosmetics can be returned. Therefore, when it comes to emotional or sexual relationships, they tend to adopt a "trial and error" mentality: if it doesn't work out, give up; if it does, cherish it. This logic is very different from the emotional outlook in Hong Kong. In Hong Kong, Hong Kong girls may feel that once they fall in love, they must devote themselves wholeheartedly and pursue "status", but in Western culture, testing and exploration are the normal first steps.
I am not saying that it is wrong for Hong Kong girls to pursue sausages, but if you are just being vain, or you cannot even tell the difference between tomato and potato in English, and you impulsively invest in "eating sausages", you may be disappointed. There is such a thing as self-knowledge. If your language skills and cultural understanding are not good enough, it will be difficult to "stick" when you force yourself into a cross-cultural relationship. I know some Hong Kong girls who were in a hurry to "dump themselves" and ended up with no status or reputation, and then blamed the other party for being a "bad luck guy". In fact, it was because they were not mentally prepared to adapt to the rules of the game played by foreigners.
After experiencing cross-cultural relationships and explorations, I learned a few lessons:
- Language and cultural gap: No matter how good my English is, it is still not my mother tongue, and the gap in daily communication and humor is difficult to make up completely. In group sex or intimate relationships, these gaps may be magnified.
- Differences in pace of life: Hong Kong people's workaholic and fast pace are often incompatible with foreigners' chill lifestyle. In group situations, these differences may affect participants' interactions and engagement.
- Self-knowledgeThere is nothing wrong with pursuing foreigners or group sex, but if you are just vain or curious, and are not mentally and linguistically prepared, it may not be worth it.
For those who want to "eat sausage" or exploreSausageSisters, I suggest you:
- Learn culture well: It is not enough to just know a few words of English, but you also need to have a deep understanding of foreign culture and thinking, such as how they view sex and relationships.
- Enhance language skills：Not only daily English, but also the ability to communicate in slang and cultural background.
- Keep it genuine: Whether it is a relationship or sexual intercourse, sincerity and respect are the most important. Don't lose sight of your own values in the pursuit of "sausage".
Conclusion
The story of "Western Sausage" and Hong Kong women reflects the unique phenomenon of Hong Kong as a meeting point of Chinese and Western cultures. As a form of sexual exploration, group sex may bring more challenges and fun in a cross-cultural context, but it must be based on consent, respect and safety. My experience has taught me that whether pursuing foreigners or exploring group sex, the most important thing is to understand your own needs and boundaries, while respecting the culture and background of others.
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