Spiral sex position
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"The spiral position improves upon these traditional positions, incorporating their best elements." This position allows for intimate face-to-face eye contact (similar to the missionary position), while providing the depth of rear-entry and allowing the partner to easily reach the clitoris like the spoon position, achieving multiple pleasures.
The spiral position is named for the kneeling position of the giver and the supine but twisted position of the receiver. Fleshy's resident sexologist and author of *Eve's Blessing: Unveiling the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain*.Suzannah WeissThe text states, "The spiral position allows for the exploration of new insertion angles, stimulating the vaginal walls rather than just the upper walls, resulting in a completely new experience." Furthermore, it is particularly suitable for increasing...clitorisStimulation is the pursuit of multiple...culminationThe ideal choice.

The history and cultural evolution of the spiral position
Origin and Early Records
Spiral position is not as good asRear entryorMissionary PositionThat is widely known, but its concept can be traced back to the ancient Indian Kama Sutra (Kama Sutra(circa 4th century AD).Kama SutraThe text describes various sexual positions involving body twisting, and the spiral position may have been inspired by these. Ancient Greek and Roman sexual art also shows similar side-entry positions, suggesting their presence in ancient cultures.

In the Middle Ages, sexual positions were rarely discussed openly due to religious taboos, but the spiral of flexibility may have been passed down in private settings. With the rise of sexology research, such as...KinseyReport (1948) andMastersandVirginia Eshman JohnsonResearch (1960s).Sex PositionsDiversity has begun to receive attention, and spiral patterns have gradually appeared in sex education literature.

Modern Development and Popularization
In the late 20th century, with the liberalization of sexual culture and the widespread use of sex toys, the spiral position began to emerge in Western sexology books and adult education. In the 21st century, along with sexual mindfulness (…Mindful SexWith the rise of sex toys and couples' toys, the spiral position, combining intimacy and stimulation, has become a new favorite among modern couples. Especially in the 2020s, with the rise of remote sex technology and sex education platforms, the spiral position has been widely used in virtual sex instruction.
Milestone Chart
The following are important milestones in the development of spiral posture.
| Time period | milestone event |
|---|---|
| 4th century AD | The Kama Sutra describes a body twisting posture, in which the spiral form begins to emerge. |
| 1948 | With the publication of the Kinsey Reports, sex research began to focus on diverse sexual positions. |
| 1960s | Masters and Johnson's research validated sexual pleasure from different angles, and the spiral method gradually gained acceptance. |
| 1990s | Sex education books began to introduce the spiral method, emphasizing its flexibility. |
| 2010s | Sex toy brands (such as We-Vibe) promote couples' toys that combine spiral design with technology. |
| 2020s | With the rise of the mindfulness of sex movement, the spiral method has become a representative of the balance between intimacy and pleasure. |

Psychological and physiological advantages of spiral position
Psychological advantage
- Intimacy and eye contactA face-to-face posture allows both parties to maintain eye contact, enhancing emotional connection.
- Flexible psychological spaceThe recipient can focus on their own pleasure or interact with their partner as needed, which is suitable for different psychological needs.
- Exploring Power DynamicsBy adjusting the posture, the spiral pose can incorporate a slight element of dominance/submission, adding to the fun.
Physiological advantages
- Stimulating from a new angleLateral entry can stimulate the left or right wall of the vagina, providing a different kind of pleasure than traditional positions.
- Clitoral touch is convenientThe recipient or giver can easily use their hands or toys to stimulate the clitoris, increasing the likelihood of orgasm.
- Flexibility AdaptationSuitable for people of different body types and flexibility, with adjustable comfort via pillows or sex wedges.

1. Spiral
- Step 1The recipient lies flat on a bed or a comfortable surface, face up.
- Step 2The giver kneels beside the receiver and straddles one of the receiver's thighs (e.g., the right leg), ensuring that both knees provide stable support for the body.
- Step 3The recipient twists their body toward the leg being straddled (e.g., to the right) while simultaneously raising the other leg (e.g., the left leg) to hook around the giver's waist or hips.
- Step 4The giver holds the recipient’s wrapped leg (e.g., right leg) with both hands to stabilize the position, and then enters from the side.
- Adjustment promptsThe recipient can slightly bend their body forward or backward or adjust the height of their legs to find the most suitable insertion angle.
PrecautionsIf the position is difficult to maintain, the rear-entry position can be switched. Both partners can use their hands or toys (such as vibrators) to stimulate the recipient's clitoris.
Advantages: Deep insertion, new angle. Both of you can hold a toy to allow the recipient to enjoy clitoral stimulation.
Disadvantage: This position can be difficult to maintain. "You can roll over and lie face down anywhere to do doggy style," Weiss said.
Change positions: Try different positions. What if the recipient bends forward or backward more? What about different leg positions? "The recipient can even try lying on their right side and left side to compare how it feels—some people have a more sensitive vaginal side," she says.
Boost your enthusiasm: Try looking in the mirror and observe yourself.

2. Winged Propeller
- Step 1: Begin with the classic spiral pose, with the receiver lying flat and the giver kneeling beside him, straddling one leg.
- Step 2The recipient should spread their legs, bend their knees, and place their feet on the giver's chest or shoulders, with their heels gently touching the ground.
- Step 3The giver should remain kneeling, adjust their body position to enter from the side, and use their hands to support the recipient's buttocks or thighs for stability.
- Step 4The recipient or giver can reach out and touch the clitoris to enhance stimulation.
- Adjustment promptsIf eye contact is uncomfortable, close your eyes or use an eye mask. The giver can try different thrusting directions (such as upward or in circles).
PrecautionsThis position may make the recipient feel vulnerable, so comfort must be ensured. It is suitable for use with a powerful vibrator.
Advantages: "This allows both of you to have contact with the recipient's clitoris, which most people with vulvas believe is either necessary for achieving orgasm or can enhance it," she said.
Disadvantages: Eye contact combined with legs spread apart may feel vulnerable to some people. You can try it with your eyes closed or blindfolded to reduce the intensity you may not need.
Try something different: "Have the giver try different thrusting motions: hips forward toward your head, upward toward the ceiling, or in circles," Richards suggests.
A hotter experience: This version is suitable for those who enjoy large quantities.clitorisThe recipient of the stimulation. Continue using the powerful vibrating wand.

3. Double-twist spiral type
- Step 1The recipient begins in a supine position, then twists their upper body downwards so that their chest is close to the bed surface, with their head slightly turned to one side.
- Step 2The giver kneels behind the receiver, or, if more comfortable, sits on the receiver's heels, adjusting their position to enter from the side or rear.
- Step 3The recipient keeps their lower body stable, while the giver supports the recipient's hips or waist with both hands and controls the rhythm.
- Step 4To enhance the experience, you can use a clitoral suction vibrator or gently pat your buttocks (with prior consent required).
- Adjustment promptsIf twisting causes discomfort, reduce the twisting range or stop, and return to a comfortable angle.
PrecautionsRequires a certain degree of flexibility; stop immediately if you feel pain. Suitable for focusing on internal sensations.
Advantages: Weiss says this version allows for slightly different insertion angles and may stimulate more internal hotspots. "Because the recipient is facing away from their partner, they are also free to close their eyes and focus on the sensations."
Disadvantages: The recipient needs to be flexible enough to maintain this twist. If the effect is not as expected, try reducing the intensity until it feels comfortable. If you feel pain, stop and return to a comfortable angle, even if it means giving up the spiral completely. Repeat after me: Sex should feel good!
Boost your passion: If you feel a little strange, this version can be compared with some similar...BDSMThese adjustment methods should be used in combination. First, always obtain consent and set boundaries. Then, gently pat the buttocks, or have the abuser hold the recipient down, tie the recipient's wrists, or use any other method that feels appropriate at the moment.

4. Cross-legged spiral pose
- Step 1The recipient lies flat, and the giver kneels down beside him, straddling one of the recipient's legs (such as the right leg).
- Step 2The recipient brings their legs together and lets them hang down, crossing their ankles (e.g., left ankle over right ankle) to create a feeling of tightness.
- Step 3The giver enters from behind, and can hold the receiver's hips or thighs with both hands to maintain stability.
- Step 4The recipient can place a thin vibrator between their legs to enhance stimulation.
- Adjustment promptsIf the giver feels knee fatigue, they can switch to the spoon position. Suitable for anal sex (lubrication required).
PrecautionsThis position increases tightness and is especially suitable for partners with smaller penises.
Advantages: "This allows you both to fit closer together and get more intense stimulation," she said. "This is a useful strategy for partners with smaller penises."
Disadvantages: The giver may feel tired/sore due to the kneeling position. If so, it can be easily converted to the spoon position.
Try something different: This spiral position is perfect for anal sex. Communicate beforehand and use lubricant!
Enhance passion: The recipient can place a thin vibrator between their legs when they are together.

5. Standing spiral posture
- Step 1The recipient lies on their side at the edge of the bed with their buttocks close to the edge to ensure stability.
- Step 2The recipient hooks one thigh up and wraps it around the giver's hips or waist, while the other leg hangs down naturally.
- Step 3The giver stands by the bed, holds the receiver's legs, and adjusts the angle to enter from the side.
- Step 4The giver can lean forward on the bed, supporting part of their weight with their hands, and both parties can freely touch each other.
- Adjustment promptsIf the bed height is not suitable, a sex wedge can be placed under the recipient's buttocks.
PrecautionsIt is necessary to ensure that the bed height is in harmony with the height of the person administering the treatment, otherwise it may affect comfort.
Advantage: "This gives the giver a greater range of activities," Weiss said.
Disadvantages: The bed height, the wearable dildo/penis, and other body parts may not be well-coordinated. If possible, the giver can lean forward against the bed, supporting part of their body weight with their hands.
Another approach: If you want a different feeling, you can place a sex wedge under the recipient's buttocks.
To make the feeling even hotter: Both of you have one hand free to touch each other. Make good use of this.

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