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BDSM(Bound bondage) is a sexual behavior pattern involving bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism, emphasizing mutual consent and safety. According to discussions within the Taiwanese BDSM community, BDSM encompasses various subcultures, among which...Pet Play"Pet Play" is a rather unique form of role-playing.
In BDSM, "dog walking" specifically refers to an owner taking a "pet" who is playing the role of a dog for a walk, which is part of the pet role-playing.

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"Dog walking" is often incorporated into longer role-playing scenarios.

walkThe owner took the "pet" out for walks multiple times, emphasizing a relationship of control and dependence.
FeedingThe game simulates the life of a real pet by having the "pet" eat from a bowl on the ground.
rest: Let the "pet" sleep in a cage or dog bed to enhance the character's immersion.
trainThe owner may perform simple training, such as teaching the "pet" to obey commands, learn tricks, or practice crawling on all fours.
Hornet's report mentions that long dog training sessions may include 30 minutes of "dog mode" followed by a 5-10 minute break, and may extend to several hours or days depending on the training progress. The owner may handle their own affairs next to the "pet," simulating a real pet-raising scenario.

Why do men like to "walk their dogs"?

sense of dominanceThe Dom in BDSM seeks a strong sense of control and authority, which is the core experience they strive for.
Power exchangeThe walk reinforces the power dynamic between the owner and the pet, allowing the owner to feel a sense of leadership and control.
Sense of careSome men enjoy the process of caring for and protecting their "pets," similar to the sense of responsibility of owning a real pet.
These psychological needs are widely discussed in the BDSM community, especially in long-term D/S relationships, where the owner may derive satisfaction from them.

Why do women like to "walk their dogs"?

Sense of complianceBeing led on a walk by their master allows them to experience the pleasure of complete obedience and control, which is a common psychological need for the passive partner (Sub) in BDSM.
Escaping realityPlaying as a "pet" allows you to temporarily escape the pressures of daily life and immerse yourself in a more primal, intuitive state, especially noticeable in overnight scenarios.
intimacyThis activity requires a high degree of trust and understanding, which enhances the close relationship between owners and pets, especially during extended role-playing sessions.
These motivations are considered important factors in attracting female participation within the BDSM community, especially in settings that emphasize emotional connection.

How to charge for "dog walking"

According to Hornet's report and common practices in international BDSM, the charging method varies depending on the circumstances:

Professional servicesIf you are hiring a professional BDSM practitioner (such as a master or slave), the fee may start from US$100 per hour, depending on the region, experience, and specific services offered. For example, BDSM activities in Taiwan may involve professional space rental or practitioner fees, which need to be inquired separately.
Private arrangementsIn private relationships, there is usually no monetary transaction; instead, it is based on the interaction and agreement between the two parties, especially in long-term D/S relationships.
online platformSome online BDSM platforms offer virtual pet role-playing services, which may be cheaper, ranging from approximately $20 to $100, depending on the services offered.
All arrangements involving money should be made with the explicit consent of both parties, and the activities should be ensured to be safe and legal.

Data and Tables

The following table, compiled from research and community sharing, shows the possible motivations for dog walking activities for different genders:

gender	Main motivation	Psychological needs
man	Sense of dominance, power exchange, responsibility of care	Control, leadership, and a sense of responsibility
woman	Sense of compliance, escapism, and enhanced intimacy	Dependence, relaxation, emotional connection

Conclusions and Precautions

In BDSM, "walking the dog" signifies much more than a simple stroll; it's a crucial component of role-playing and power exchange. Both men and women can derive different pleasures and emotional satisfaction from it. Pricing varies depending on the situation, but most importantly, all activities should be based on mutual consent and safety, especially in overnight settings where physical and psychological strain must be carefully considered.

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