During anal sex, the man ejaculates into the woman's anus.

men and womenAnal sexAnal ejaculation (anal) creampie) refers toa maleexistfemalesAnal ejaculation is a common variation of anal sex, prevalent among heterosexual couples and in the adult entertainment industry. This practice emphasizes the feeling of fullness inside and visual/psychological stimulation.

It can bring joy, intimacy, and a sense of exploration.

The psychology of anal sex has no single explanation, but rather is a complex interplay of multiple factors.

Psychological motivations and reasons for anal sex

People engage in anal sex for a variety of reasons, including physical pleasure, emotional connection, and social factors. A 2024 qualitative study interviewing female participants identified the following common motivations:

1. Physiological pleasure and noveltyThe anus is densely populated with nerve endings (over 10,000), and stimulation can produce intense pleasure, similar to an "internal orgasm." Reason: Curiosity and exploration of new sensations; 38.91% of participants reported "a unique and enjoyable feeling," and 27.61% reported a more intense orgasm.
2. Emotional intimacy and trustAnal sex requires more communication and preparation to deepen the bond between partners. 18.2% participants consider it a "deep intimacy and emotional" experience, symbolizing complete trust.
3. Power and DominationIn the BDSM context, anal sex can satisfy fantasies of domination/submission. The receiver may enjoy the feeling of being "conquered," while the perpetrator enjoys control.
4. Cultural and social factorsTaboo increases excitement (e.g., because it is considered "dirty" in a culture, it is more stimulating). Some people engage in sex to satisfy their partners or are influenced by adult media (e.g., 40% videos contain anal sex).
5. Psychological explorationSome people use anal sex to deal with sexual curiosity or identity issues, especially within the LGBTQ+ community.

Negative Motivations: Compulsive anal sex is often associated with psychopathology, such as paranoia or schizophrenic traits, increasing the risk of emotional problems. Trauma survivors may associate anal sex with negative memories, leading to avoidance or compulsive reenactment.

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Psychological feelings about anal sex

The sensations of anal sex vary from person to person and are influenced by experience, preparation, and mindset. Positive sensations include:

• Pleasure and ClimaxMany describe it as "more intense and more systemic" because the anal nerve connects to the pelvic nerve plexus, and stimulation can reach the clitoris/prostate. Women often report mixed orgasms, while men experience prostate orgasms.
• Intimacy and ConnectionTrust and communication are needed to deepen emotional bonds.
• Excitement and liberationThe sense of taboo brings psychological release and satisfies the desire for exploration.

Negative feelings:

• Pain and discomfortThe first time is often painful due to sphincter tension, which leads to anxiety.
• Shame and GuiltCultural taboos (such as being considered "abnormal") can trigger psychological conflict.
• Trauma ConnectionNegative experiences may trigger PTSD-like symptoms.

Anal sex has multiple psychological dimensions, ranging from pleasurable intimacy to taboo exploration, but it can also be linked to negative emotions. Healthy practice requires communication and preparation; consult a professional for any discomfort.

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Detailed instructions for playing (safe and practical version)

Anal sex with ejaculation should be approached gradually, with the total duration depending on experience (30–90 minutes). The key is relaxation, lubrication, and communication to avoid tearing or discomfort. The following steps are suitable for couples.

Preparation phase (0–15 minutes):

• Discussion and agreementClearly define boundaries and use safe words (such as "stop"). Confirm that the woman has no hemorrhoids, enteritis, or other problems, and that the man has no infection.
• Hygiene and CleaningBoth partners should shower. The woman should perform a warm water enema (1500ml warm water + a small amount of lubricant, leave for 5 minutes to expel). Use at least 300ml of water-based lubricant (the anus has no self-lubricating ability).
• Props: Anal plug (pre-dilation); wet wipes/towels.

Warm-up foreplay (15–30 minutes):

• Start with kissing and touching, gradually progressing to oral sex or gentle finger insertion into the vagina (to arouse the woman and help her relax).
• Anal preparation: Apply lubricant to one finger (insert 1-2 cm and hold for 3 minutes, gently circling to dilate the sphincter). Gradually increase to 2-3 fingers (hold each finger for 5 minutes).
• Objective: The woman's anus is completely relaxed, and the man is aroused but does not ejaculate.

Insertion phase (30–50 minutes):

• postureWomen should kneel or lie on their side (to better control depth); men should enter from behind.
• Insertion StepsWearing a condom and applying lubricant to the penis, slowly insert it 1cm from the entrance, hold for 10 seconds, and repeat until fully inserted (5–7cm). Begin gentle thrusting (0.5 times per second).
• Rhythm: 8 slow strokes → 8 fast strokes → pause for 5 seconds → then speed up again. Women can massage their clitoris for added effect.
• Intracranial preparation: When approaching orgasm, confirm the woman's consent to ejaculation.

Climax phase (50–60 minutes):

• When the male thrusts at a rate of 1–2 times per second, the G-spot equivalent zone is reached.
• During ejaculationdie-hardDo not move, allow the semen to be completely ejaculated inside (stay for 10–20 seconds).
• Women experience a feeling of fullness, while men experience a feeling of contraction and envelopment.

Finishing touches (60–70 minutes):

• Slowly withdraw the tube and clean with a wet wipe. Women should wash the anus with warm water to prevent infection.
• Hug and share your feelings, hydrate and rest. Monitor for bleeding/pain for 24 hours.

Advanced variantsAdd toys (such as vibrating anal plugs) orHot and ice water cock sucking(Alternating hot and cold lubrication); BDSM version with bondage and domination.

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Does it feel good for men?

Yes, men usually experience great pleasure from ejaculation inside the body, which brings intense psychological and physiological satisfaction.

• Feel better physiologicallyThe anal sphincter tightly envelops the penis (tighter than the vagina), resulting in intense friction during penetration. The sphincter spasms during ejaculation, providing an additional squeezing sensation. Orgasms last longer (an average of 20–30 seconds longer).
• Psychological satisfactionIt symbolizes "complete possession" and forbidden conquest, satisfying the desire for dominance. Visually watching semen flow from the anus brings a sense of accomplishment.
• Pleasure dataA 2025 survey showed that 851 men found anal intercourse with ejaculation 20-501 times more pleasurable than vaginal intercourse, but the peak pleasure required female consent.
• shortcomingIf the woman does not relax, the friction may be too tight, causing pain.

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Does the woman enjoy it?

Not necessarily. Women's experiences vary from person to person, with about 60-70% experiencing pleasure, but adequate preparation is necessary.

• Feel better physiologicallyThe anal wall is richly innervated, and stimulation can transmit signals to the vagina/clitoris, producing an indirect orgasm. The feeling of fullness after the sphincter relaxes is pleasurable, and the warm liquid from ejaculation provides additional stimulation.
• Psychological satisfactionSymbolizing complete trust and surrender, satisfying the desire to be conquered. If you enjoy BDSM, the taboo of ejaculation inside adds to the pleasure.
• Pleasure dataA 2025 survey showed that women using the 70% experienced pleasure with sufficient lubrication, and while they did not experience orgasm, they still felt pleasurable. However, initial experiences often involved pain (sphincter muscle discomfort).
• shortcomingIt is painful and has a high risk of infection (the pH value of semen irritates the rectum), and because it lacks a prostate, it is not as pleasurable as direct penetration for men.

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10 Frequently Asked Questions

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