69 position + The woman simultaneously masturbates the man's penis with her hand.

The 69 position (also known as the 69 position or 69 posture) is a classic oral sex position. The name comes from the shape of the numbers "6" and "9" upside down and facing each other head to tail, symbolizing the posture of two people facing opposite directions and simultaneously using their mouths to serve each other's genitals.

Core featuresTwo people are doing it at the same time.oral sex（cunnilingus or fellatioOne person stimulates the other's penis/clitoris/labia with their mouth, while the other person receives the same stimulation simultaneously. The position creates a mirror-symmetric arrangement with the head and tail facing each other, or overlapping vertically or laterally.

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Three most common basic variants

1. Classic prone position (Classic 69)
   • The man lies on his back on the bed, and the woman straddles his face (facing the man's feet), with her buttocks aligned with his mouth, and leans down to take his penis into her mouth.
   • Advantages: Strong visual stimulation (close-up view of the other person's private parts), suitable for people who want to see a "panoramic view".
   • Disadvantages: When the woman is on top, her weight puts pressure on the man's face and neck, and when the man is on top, the woman is prone to neck pain or difficulty breathing.
2. Side-by-Side / Lazy 69
   • The two lay on their sides, embracing each other like spoons, but with their heads and tails reversed, so that their mouths were directly in front of each other's genitals.
   • Advantages: Most comfortable, does not compress the cervical spine or breathing, long duration, large hand movement space (can simultaneously caress the waist, hips, and inner thighs).
   • Recommended for first-timers, those with significant height differences, those with weaker stamina, or those who want to play for a long time.
3. Standing/Inverted 69
   • One person stands while the other is upside down (with their legs hanging over the shoulders of the standing person, or being lifted up).
   • Advantages: Extremely stimulating, visually impactful, suitable for partners with strength and balance.
   • Disadvantages: Extremely physically demanding, high risk (easy to fall), not suitable for most people.

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A physiological analysis of male masturbation from 69 positions

Ranking of the most sensitive areas in men (nerve ending density and intensity of brain reward response):

• The lower edge of the coronal sulcus (especially on the frenulum side)
• coronal sulcus of the glans penis
• Around the urethral opening and inside the urethral opening
• Mid-section of the corpora cavernosa (especially the dorsal side)
• scrotum base and perineum

male penis

1.external urethral meatus	2.glans penis	3.coronal sulcus	4.Corpus cavernosum of the penis	5. Corpus spongiosum	6.scrotum
7.Penis crest	8. Urethral bulb	9.anus	10.Frenulum	11.Penis root

Ranking of women's most sensitive areas:

• The glans clitoris (especially at the junction of the inner foreskin and the labia minora).
• Clitoral crura (the part that extends deep inside the labia)
• Vestibular area (around the urethral opening)
• G-spot area (2–5 cm from the anterior wall)
• Orbicularis oculi muscle group of vaginal opening

The clitoris is part of the female external genitalia, located above the labia minora and above the urethral opening. From the outside, it looks like a small button-shaped head called the clitoral glans, about the size of a pea, covered by the clitoral hood. But this is just the tip of the iceberg; the total length of the clitoris can reach 7-12 centimeters, with most of it hidden inside the body.

The internal structure includes:

• Clitoral bodyExtending from the clitoral glans, it resembles the corpora cavernosa of the penis, filled with erectile tissue, and can swell during sexual arousal.
• Clitoral legsTwo leg-like structures extend to both sides of the vagina, about 9 centimeters long, encircling the urethra and vaginal opening.
• Clitoral bulbsLocated below the vaginal opening and connected to the clitoral crura, it becomes engorged and swollen when aroused, providing additional stimulation.

In the standard 69 position, both partners' mouths are aimed at each other's most sensitive areas. This play is further enhanced by the woman continuously stimulating the middle and back of the man's penis and scrotum with her hands, resulting in the man being attacked by both "mouth + hand" at the same time, while the woman is stimulated by "tongue + lips + suction + breath" in a single but extremely high intensity.

Key points:
Men receive stimuli that are "multi-point, heterogeneous, and frequently changing," while women receive stimuli that are "single-point, continuous, and deeply stressful."
The simultaneous occurrence of two completely different stimulation patterns overloads the brain's sensory cortex and reward system (nucleus accumbens and amygdala).

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The unique advantages of hand gestures (why oral sex alone is not enough, and hands must be added)

The true value of masturbation in 69 is not in "making men ejaculate faster," but in the following four aspects:

• Complete exposure and repeated friction of the foreskin and coronal sulcus
  It's difficult to keep the foreskin completely pulled back and held in place using the mouth, but it's possible with the hand. When the foreskin is held back, the coronal sulcus is fully exposed, and sensitivity increases 2–4 times with each stroke of the tongue or lips.
• Precise adjustments to rhythm and intensity
  The sucking motion of the mouth and the movement of the tongue are limited by breathing, saliva volume, and chin fatigue, and the range of variation is limited.
  Hands can do:
  3 times per second → 8 times per second
  Gently stroke → Hold tightly until white
  Stimulate only the glans → Massage extensively throughout the entire process → Pinch only the frenulum side
  These changes are difficult to achieve in the oral cavity alone.
• Additional stimulation of the scrotum and perineum
  Most women do not pay attention to the scrotum or perineum during oral sex (due to posture and distance).
  However, in 69, the woman can easily knead the scrotum, press the perineum, and even lightly scrape the scrotal folds with her fingertips → This will trigger the levator ani reflex, causing the testicles to lift and further increasing the tension before ejaculation.
• Grip strength and temperature changes
  The temperature of the palm is lower than that of the mouth. When the hand suddenly grasps the penis that has just left the warm mouth, it will produce a significant contrast between hot and cold stimulation. This temperature difference will cause the corpus cavernosum nerves to discharge strongly.

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Positive feedback loop

Common physiological reactions in women when they experience heightened pleasure from being licked:

• The clitoris and labia are more congested.
• Increased frequency of vaginal contractions
• Involuntary clenching of inner thigh muscles
• Breathing becomes shallow and rapid → More groans and nasal sounds are emitted
• The pelvis sways back and forth involuntarily.

These reactions will be directly fed back to men:

• Hearing more moaning → Increased dopamine and sexual arousal
• I could feel her pelvis swaying → I wanted to lick her even harder.
• The labia and clitoris are more swollen → making it easier to hold and suck.
• The mixture of saliva and vaginal fluid creates a stronger flavor, thus enhancing olfactory stimulation.

The more forcefully a man licks, sucks, or pushes his tongue against a woman's, the harder it is for her to keep her hands steady. As a result, her hands will unconsciously speed up, grip tighter, or pause briefly before suddenly accelerating again.

This positive feedback loop of "the more you enjoy it, the more out of control I become, and the more out of control I become, the more you enjoy it" is the main reason why this method is several times more effective than simple 69 or simple handjob.

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Amplification at the psychological level

• Complete exposure and the sense of being observed
  69 is one of the few positions where the genitals are "face-to-face" and extremely close. The woman can clearly see every throbbing of the man's penis, the contraction of the urethral opening, and the bulging of the veins; the man can also see the woman's labia opening, the stringy vaginal lubrication, and the trembling of the clitoris. This feeling of being "completely exposed" strongly activates a mixture of feelings of shame and exhibitionism, which is a powerful psychological aphrodisiac for many people.
• Rapid switching between control and loss of control
  The woman controls the rhythm of the man's ejaculation with her hands (slowing it down when she wants him to hold back, and suddenly speeding it up when she wants him to break down), but at the same time her orgasm is completely controlled by the man's mouth.
  This dynamic of power, where "I control you and you control me," flips every second, repeatedly stimulating the brain's dominance-submission circuitry.
• The strong expectation of "climaxing together"
  Because the intensity of stimulation is similar for both parties, many people will unconsciously pursue "synchronized orgasms".
  When one person feels they are close to the finish line, they will try harder to stimulate the other, wanting to bring them up as well. This further increases the excitement of both parties, forming the final sprint stage.

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Specific hand techniques and their effects on stimulation intensity (ranked from highest to lowest)

The following are some of the actions that were most frequently mentioned as "unbearable" in actual testing and feedback:

1. Hold the area below the coronal sulcus with your thumb and forefinger and rub it back and forth quickly (commonly known as "wringing a towel").
2. Full palm coverage + high-speed manipulation + suddenly stop at the top and only lightly scrape the glans with the fingertips
3. Hold the base of the penis in place and quickly rub the upper part of the glans with only the palm of your hand (like using a whisk).
4. One hand massages the scrotum while the other hand uses only three fingers to gently pinch the frenulum side and slide it up and down.
5. Suddenly release your grip during rapid stroking, letting the penis spring back on its own, then grip it tightly again.
6. Gently scratch the external opening of the urethra with your fingernail (very few people can withstand this for more than 10 seconds).
7. The penis bends upward at 90 degrees and then rubs against the frenulum quickly and briefly.
8. Hold it with both hands at the same time and rotate it in the opposite direction, like wringing a towel.

These actions are so lethal because they directly attack the route with the highest nerve density: the frenulum-coronary sulcus-urethral eye.

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Table of Common Extreme Moments and Physiological Responses

time	Common male reactions	Common reactions in women	Why is it so exciting?
A woman suddenly accelerates her hand speed for more than 10 seconds.	Straighten your back, tighten your abdominal muscles, and hold your breath.	The groans became sharper, and the pelvis trembled violently.	Positive feedback loop enters the highest level
Male tongue rapidly flicks clitoris	Increased penile twitching and copious discharge from the urethral opening	Inner thigh spasms, vaginal opening contractions	The woman loses control → Her hand movements also become uncontrollable.
Women use their fingertips specifically for the glans and frenulum.	Her hips involuntarily rose, and she let out a short, sharp cry of "Ah...no!"	She also started actively rubbing her lips against men's.	Both sides simultaneously attack each other's "ejaculation switch".
Both are approaching climax simultaneously (within the first 10 seconds).	The penis is extremely swollen, with prominent veins, and the testicles are tightly contracted and lifted.	The clitoris was extremely hard, the labia were fully open, and a large amount of vaginal fluid gushed out.	The brain's reward system enters a state of extreme anticipation, a state of "about to explode."
After the climax, the woman continued to gently stroke the glans penis.	My whole body was shaking violently; I wanted to escape but couldn't.	I also trembled due to an allergic reaction.	Stimulation during the sensitive period is amplified more than 10 times.

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Super detailed expansion of hand techniques (42 practical breakdowns)

A. Basic grip techniques and manipulation techniques (emphasizing rhythm and full stem coverage)

1. Full palm wrap high-speed long-distance manipulation
   Stimulation Index: 9.2 Suitable for: Any form
   The palm completely covers the middle and rear part of the penis to the lower edge of the glans, moving up and down 6-8 times per second throughout the entire distance.
   Physiological mechanism: Simultaneous compression of all cavernous nerve bundles + friction along the entire length of the frenulum. Advantages: With the woman's breasts pressing against the man's lower abdomen, her body weight helps the hands adhere more closely, reducing slippage.
   Positive feedback: The man thrusts his waist hard → He presses his tongue harder against the woman's clitoris → The woman unconsciously grips her hand tighter, creating a chain reaction of "the more you thrust, the faster I masturbate."
2. Root fixation + short-distance high-speed friction in the upper half
   Stimulation Index: 9.5 Suitable for: Longer penises
   Hold the base of the penis firmly with one hand (to fix the blood flow to the base of the corpus cavernosum), and use the other hand to perform short, rapid stroking motions 10 times per second only above the coronal sulcus.
   Why it's strong: The base is fixed, preventing blood from flowing back, causing the glans to become extremely engorged, increasing sensitivity by 300%. 69 Advantage: The woman can see the glans throbbing and swelling up close, creating a strong sense of psychological control, as if she is in control of the woman's ejaculation.
3. Alternating hands in a relay motion
   Stimulation level: 9.0 Suitable for: All
   After the left hand reaches the end, immediately switch to the right hand and continue, always maintaining a continuous motion without interruption.
   69 exclusive: The woman's hands are on the man's lower body, allowing her to support her weight using her shoulders and arms, reducing fatigue and extending the duration to over 20 minutes. Psychological amplification: The man feels "there's always a hand moving," creating a sense of helplessness from endless stimulation.

B. Precision point attack type (targeting the densest area of nerves)

4. Thumb + index finger "wringing a towel" coronal sulcus
   Stimulation Index: 9.8 Suitable for: Those with intact foreskin or who have already undergone circumcision.
   Place two fingers on the most sensitive area below the coronal sulcus and quickly rotate and rub it left and right like wringing a towel.
   Physiological: Directly compresses the most densely packed ring area of the dorsal nerve of the penis, generating 80–120 nerve impulses per second.
   69. Advantage: The woman's mouth is holding the glans, and her tongue can circle around the urethral opening, creating a three-dimensional attack that "rotates up and down simultaneously".
5. Use your fingertips to gently scrape up and down the side of the frenulum.
   Stimulation Index: 9.9 Suitable for: Individuals with prominent frenulum
   Using the pad of your index or middle finger, gently scrape up and down the frenulum 8–12 times per second.
   Why it's so potent: The density of nerves in the frenulum is four times the average for the glans penis, and scratching it triggers the "preejaculation reflex." Exclusive to 69 partners: The woman can accurately judge how many seconds are left in the man's penis by the frequency of his throbbing, creating a feeling of control and pleasure, as if she can "read your orgasm countdown."
6. Lightly press and rotate with your fingertips.
   Stimulation Index: 9.7 Suitable for: Individuals with equine eye sensitivity
   Moisten your index fingertip with saliva, gently press on the urethral opening and rotate clockwise 3–5 times per second.
   Psychologically: Men experience a mixture of shame and pleasure from the feeling of "urethral invasion," and the 69 position allows the woman to simultaneously see the glans penis opening and closing due to stimulation.

C. Combined stimulation of the scrotum and perineum (multi-point attack)

7. Using one hand to masturbate the penis and the other to rub the scrotum to "lift the testicles".
   Stimulation Index: 9.3
   Use your right hand to manipulate the penis, while using your left hand to support the scrotum with four fingers and gently lift it upwards, while simultaneously pressing the perineum with your thumb.
   Physiologically: The levator palpebrae superioris muscle is stretched, causing the testicles to rise and compress the prostate, resulting in ejaculation 30-60 seconds earlier. Advantage: When the woman's mouth is on the penis, her nose is close to the scrotum, allowing her to smell a strong scent of male hormones, enhancing olfactory stimulation.
8. The scrotum is stitched with fingertips that are "pulled back and forth".
   Stimulation Index: 8.8
   Gently pluck up and down the scrotum with the tips of two fingers, like playing guitar strings.
   69 Exclusive: This action will cause the male's inner thigh muscles to contract continuously, which will make his tongue lick the female's clitoris more rhythmic.
9. Perineal deep pressure + pulse massage
   Stimulation Index: 9.4
   Apply deep pressure and relax twice per second with the pad of your middle finger to the perineum (between the anus and scrotum).
   Why is it so strong? It directly or indirectly stimulates the external prostate, producing a torturous pleasure of "wanting to ejaculate but being unable to."

D. Rhythm changes and surprise attacks (disrupting male expectations)

10. "Accelerate - stop suddenly - surge again" triple attack
    Continuously masturbate at high speed for 15 seconds → suddenly release completely for 5 seconds → then grip tightly with maximum force and thrust for 10 seconds.
    Physiological: A sudden stop cuts off the power to the nerves, and when the nerves surge again, all the nerves burst out at the same time, with an intensity 2.5 times that of continuous manipulation.
    69 Psychology: Men will frantically lick women in the 5 seconds of sudden stop as a form of "revenge," while the woman will deliberately tighten her thighs at this moment to make him lick harder, escalating the interaction to a fever pitch.
11. "Slow Three, Fast Seven" Irregular Rhythm
    In every 10 manipulations, there are 3 extremely slow (almost still) and 7 extremely fast.
    69 Advantages: Women can adjust to their own orgasm rhythm, and when they are about to reach their climax, they can lengthen the "last seven" to allow the man to reach his climax at the same time.
12. Suddenly reverse the motion (pulling down from the glans).
    Normally, the movement is from bottom to top, but one time it suddenly only involves pulling down from top to bottom.
    Psychological impact: It violates the male brain's existing expectations of "manipulation" and produces a strong, unfamiliar pleasure.

E. Ultimate Two-Handed Techniques (Highest Lethality)

13. Twisting hands together
    Grasp the penis with both hands simultaneously, one hand clockwise and the other counterclockwise, rotating it in opposite directions as if wringing out a towel.
    Thrill Level: 9.9 Extreme Play
    69 exclusive: The woman's upper body is completely pressed against the man's body, and her hands can get the best support and angle.
14. One hand holds the base of the penis while the other hand uses a "beater" to hold the glans.
    Hold the base with your left hand and cup the glans with your right palm, then shake it rapidly from side to side (like an electric whisk).
    Why is it so devastating? The nerves in the glans penis are vibrated at a high frequency within a very small area, which can cause most men to lose control and ejaculate in 5–8 seconds.
15. Hands clasped together for "full pressure"
    Grasp the entire length with both hands overlapping, and use maximum force to slowly and long-distance stroke, stretching the skin to its limit each time.
    Suitable for women who want men to experience the feeling of being "completely conquered".

F. Combining oral cavity mixing techniques (69 exclusive trump card)

16. Mouth holding the glans penis + hand rapidly stroking the middle section
    The woman's lips only covered the glans, her tongue circled the urethral opening, while her hand vigorously stroked the middle and rear.
    Physiological: The mouth provides moist heat and suction, while the hands provide dry friction; the contrast between hot and cold, and wet and dry, doubles the pleasure.
17. Spitting out the penis + shooting with a hand "slingshot"
    After removing your mouth, pinch the area below the glans with two fingers and suddenly flick it out, then immediately put it back in your mouth.
    Repeating this more than 10 times will give men a strong sense of humiliating pleasure from being "played with".
18. Deep throat + hand massage of the scrotum
    When the penis is fully inserted into the throat, the scrotum is kneaded vigorously with the hands at the same time.
    69. Advantage: At this time, the woman can completely relax her throat muscles, allowing the man to feel the ultimate sense of being "swallowed whole".

G. Advanced variants and contextual bonuses

19–25. Customized adjustments for different penile shapes

• Shorter and thicker type: Focus on using both hands to cover and knead with a "pressing" motion.
• Longer, curved type: Press the penis towards the abdomen with your hand to expose the largest area of the frenulum.
• For phimosis: First, use your hand to completely pull the foreskin back to the base and hold it in place before proceeding with any other actions.
• Sensitive urethral eye type: Avoid direct contact with the urethral eye throughout the process; only attack the area around the coronal sulcus.
• Long-lasting: Adds a light (very light) scratching motion to increase the pleasurable pain.

26–35. Time Management Techniques (How to make a round of 69 last 25–40 minutes)

• Change your grip every 3 minutes to avoid getting used to it.
• When the man is about to ejaculate, immediately switch to using only the fingertips for ultra-light stroking (edging technique).
• A woman deliberately stops her hand during orgasm, making the man "hold it in with her."
• Use a lubricant (saliva or vaginal lubricant) to change the coefficient of friction, and reapply every 5 minutes.

36–42. Extreme Psychological Games

• "Countdown to ejaculation": The woman masturbates while loudly counting down "10, 9, 8..."
• "Don't ejaculate" command: When the man is about to ejaculate, suddenly stop and say "Don't ejaculate," repeat 3 times before letting him ejaculate.
• The choice of "where to cum": Asking while masturbating, "Do you want to cum in my hand? Or in my mouth? Or on my face?" allows men to answer in a state of extreme excitement.
• After climax, gently scrape the urethral opening for 30 seconds (a torment during allergy season).
• By combining blindfolds or headphones, the man can only judge the situation through touch and hearing (the woman's moans).

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Why can these techniques elevate the stimulation to a "devastating" level in 69?

1. Heterogeneous stimulation superpositionOral cavity (warm, sucking, unpredictable) + hands (precise, controllable force, temperature change) = overload of the brain's sensory cortex.
2. Visual close-range enhancementThe woman can see how her fingers play with the man's penis until the veins bulge and the urethral opening oozes fluid. This "personally creating pleasure" scene will simultaneously increase the woman's own excitement.
3. Highest positive feedback indexAll of the above techniques will make the man's tongue movements more intense, deeper, and faster, thus allowing the woman to reach orgasm faster, which in turn will make her hand movements more out of control.
4. The ultimate balance between the feeling of control and the feeling of being controlledThe woman controls the rhythm of the man's ejaculation with her hands, while the man controls the rhythm of the woman's orgasm with his mouth. Both of them are simultaneously the master and the slave. This power reversal cannot be replicated in any other position.

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