What is the lotus position for sexual intercourse?
"sitting on a lotus"Sexual Positions"(Also called)"Lotus position,Lotus Position The woman sits on top of the man, with him on the bottom. They embrace tightly, look into each other's eyes, face to face, their legs intertwined, sitting cross-legged in sexual intercourse.
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Variations of the lotus pose include the easy pose (Sukhasana), half lotus pose, bound lotus pose, and union pose. Other advanced variations, such as the yoga headstand, also involve the lotus pose or half lotus pose. This pose may be uncomfortable for those unaccustomed to sitting cross-legged, and forcing the legs into the lotus position may result in knee injury.
Standard Practice
- The male (or the one who penetrates) First, sit cross-legged (like the lotus position in yoga, or simply cross your legs), with your back supported by the headboard/wall/pillow, which is more comfortable.
- The woman (or the one being penetrated) Sit face-to-face on the other person's lap, wrapping your legs around their waist or back.
- The two people should be chest to chest, arms embracing, as close as possible, allowing the penis to naturally enter the vagina (or anus).
- The main actionsrocking back and forth, dawdling, drawing circlesInstead of forceful thrusting (due to positional limitations, the sprint amplitude is small).
advantage
- Ultimate IntimacyThroughout, there is eye contact, kissing, whispering in the ear, chest to chest, and synchronized heartbeats, creating a feeling of "becoming one." Many people say this is the "most romantic/loving position," especially suitable for those who want to deepen their relationship, slow down their love, or engage in tantric sex.
- Strong stimulationThe woman can control the depth, angle, and speed herself, making it easier to achieve a smooth, rubbing motion.clitoris(Close to the other person's lower abdomen) orPoint G(Anterior wall). The male partner can also feel strong vaginal contractions.
- Suitable for a slow paceEffortless and sustained, it can prolong the time and even reach an "energy climax" without necessarily ejaculating, by breathing and meditating simultaneously.
- Wide applicabilityIt can be used for vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse (better when the woman is tilted back), or even without penetration, just rubbing the clitoris/vulva.
- Visual/Tactile ExplosionIt hugs you tightly, with full skin-to-skin contact, making you feel incredibly safe and surrounded.
shortcoming
- Legs/High flexibility requiredMen may experience knee or ankle soreness after sitting cross-legged for a long time; women may also experience fatigue in their inner thighs from crossing their legs. Many people's legs give way before they can hold the position for more than 10 minutes.
- Small thrusting rangeIt's not suitable for people who want to "go all out." It mainly involves grinding, shaking, and swinging. Trying to sprint with great force will make you feel uncomfortable or cause you to slip out.
- Physical strength distributionWhen the woman is in control, her thighs and core muscles will get tired; the man will also experience lower back pain from supporting her.
- Not suitable for those with large body size differencesIf one side is too heavy, the person underneath may experience leg numbness or difficulty breathing.
- Entry angleAdjustments may be necessary initially, otherwise the penis may feel curved and uncomfortable.
Practical Variation
- Wall/Bedside VersionWith the man's back supporting him, it's easier for the woman to rock back and forth forcefully.
- Chair/Office Chair VersionThe man sits on a chair, and the woman straddles him, with her feet on the ground to control the rhythm (suitable for people with sore legs).
- Reverse lotus positionThe woman sits with her back to the man, her buttocks facing him, creating a strong visual stimulus and a more intense G-spot angle.
- Squatting LotusThe woman squats up and down with her feet on the bed, reaching the deepest point, but it's extremely tiring (a great leg-training technique).
- Add toysWhen the woman leans back, the man or woman can stimulate her clitoris with a vibrator, greatly increasing the chances of a double orgasm.
- No insertion, just grindingPure external rubbing, kissing, and caressing.
The lotus position is not about pursuing "how intense the sex is", but rather..."We are now one."That feeling. Perfect for moments when you want to slow down, deepen your connection, and make love with your eyes. If you usually move too fast, try this once and experience a "heart-orgasm."
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