Throat
Throat (Irrumatio)It's an advanced technique that gives guys an ultimate feeling of being enveloped and having their throats tightly gripped, but the core is...Safe, gradual, and relaxing.
Table of contents
Safety and Prerequisites
- Communication and ConsentBeforehand, clarify the depth, speed, gag tolerance, and ejaculation location. Establish nonverbal cues: slap your thigh twice = stop immediately, pinch your leg = slow down, give a thumbs up = continue.
- Health considerationsAvoid practicing when you have a cold, sore throat, asthma, or immediately after eating. If the pain lasts more than 2–3 days or you have difficulty swallowing afterward, see a doctor immediately.
- lubricatingApply plenty of saliva or edible/water-based lubricant to the penis to reduce friction pain.
- Warm-upFirst, perform oral sex normally for 10-15 minutes to allow the penis to become engorged with blood and your mouth/throat to relax.
- Not suitableIf the gag reflex is extremely strong or you experience discomfort, do not force it; many people take several weeks to feel comfortable.
Posture Recommendations
- Best for beginnersThe boy lies on his back, and you lie between his legs (head directly facing his penis, neck naturally).
- Easiest to penetrate:Lie-back / Bed-edge → Lie on the edge of the bed with your head hanging off the edge and your neck tilted back in a straight line (your throat is straight, like when you swallow something). If you're standing or kneeling, it's easy to slip in, but you should use a pillow to support your neck to avoid soreness.
- Control VersionYou kneel, he sits or stands, and you hold the base of the foot with your hand to determine the depth.
- Avoid: He pushes you over the head (unless you both love throatfucking and there's a signal).
Training the gag reflex (Gag reflex desensitization)
The pharyngeal reflex is the biggest obstacle, with trigger points at the base of the tongue, soft palate, and tonsils.
- Step 1Gently brush the back of your tongue/throat with a clean toothbrush handle or your finger. Stop when you feel nauseous, take a deep breath through your nose for 10 seconds, and relax. Repeat until you are less sensitive.
- Step 2Using a thin, long artificial penis/finger/cucumber (with lubricant), slowly insert it to the point where you feel like vomiting → stop, take a deep breath through your nose, and make an "ah~" or yawning motion (open your mouth wide, flatten your tongue, and open your throat) → hold for 5–10 seconds → withdraw. Increase the depth by 1–2 cm each day.
Tips
- Make a fist and tuck your thumb into your palm (pressing acupoints on the palm to inhibit reflexes).
- Stick your tongue out as far as possible (place your tongue flat on the tongue depressor to open your throat).
- When practicing, think of "swallowing something" rather than "being stuffed."
Actual deep throat procedure
Warm-upLick the shaft, flick the frenulum, and suck the glans to excite him; you'll produce a lot of saliva.
Breathing control(Most crucial): Use throughout the entire processBreathing through the noseDo not inhale through your mouth when it is full.
進入：
- Open your mouth into a big "O" shape, with your lips covering your teeth (to prevent scratches).
- Extend your tongue flat (like a tongue depressor).
- Slowly inhale → Stop when you feel like spitting out → Inhale deeply through your nose → Make an "ah~" sound or swallow gently (contract your throat to hold it in place).
Hold and move:
- Hold deep inside for 5–10 seconds, then gently press your tongue against the underside of the penis to increase friction.
- Slightly move the head up and down (1–2 cm) to rub the glans penis against the larynx.
- Vacuum suction: After taking your mouth in deeply, gently suck in (like a straw) and swallow (gurgling sound).
Pull outRetract slowly, don't pull it out suddenly.
repeatFrom shallow to deep, gradually increase time/depth.
Advanced Techniques
- "Say Ah" methodInhale, then exhale with an "AHHHH" sound, relax your throat and let the penis slide straight in.
- Swallowing attackWhen you hold your mouth in your mouth, swallow gently (your throat contracts like a vacuum pump).
- Edge controlWhen you feel him about to ejaculate, hold your mouth deep and gently suck → pull out and only lick the head → repeat 3–5 times → finally, give a full-force deep throat ejaculation.
- Sound and vision: Intentionally making gurgling, wet chirping sounds, or light gags (many people find this very stimulating).
- Temperature PlayFirst, drink warm water/hot beverage, then switch to ice water (the hot and cold stimulates the nerves).
- comprehensive: Hand stroke at the base + mouth deep throat + tongue flick the frenulum + press the perineum (between the testicles and anus).
Common Problem Solving
- Always gag → Practice more while staying on the edge, use "ah~" or clench your fist, and change to an inverted hanging position.
- Neck/throat pain → Use a pillow, don't stay up too long, and drink warm water or suck on throat lozenges afterward.
- He shot too quickly → First, extend the edge control.
- Feeling nauseous → Take a deep breath through your nose, raise the back of your tongue to protect your throat, and don't panic (tenseness will only make you feel more tense).
Many people can achieve full penetration after 1-4 weeks of practice, and even enjoy the process. The key is not depth, but comfort.
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